The Rare Jewel of Christian Contentment
The
Rare
Jewel
of Christian
Contentment
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Sermon Two:
How To Learn the Skill of Christian Contentment
By Jeremiah Burroughs | 1648
Sermon Adaptation by Ryan Rench
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RYAN RENCH | Calvary Baptist Publications | Temecula, CA.
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Contents
Learning the Skill of Contentment 8
1. Learning Contentment: Paradox and the Pathway to Satisfaction 11
2. Learning Contentment: Subtraction, Not Addition 16
3. Learning Contentment: Adding the Weight of Sin 20
4. Learning Contentment: Changing and Embracing the Burden 24
5. Learning Contentment: Staying Active in the Problem 28
6. Learning Contentment: Melting Your Will into God’s Will 32
7. Learning Contentment: Purging What Is Within 36
Learning the Skill of Contentment
When you try something for the very first time, it’s highly likely you’ll fail. It’s just part of the process. Whether it’s riding a bike, cooking a meal, or throwing a curveball, mastery doesn’t happen overnight.
I’m reminded of the difference in skill levels between the volleyball divisions my children have played in. My youngest, Gwen, plays Division 1 volleyball, while Abe is in Division 3. In the youngest division, kids are often just thrilled to get the ball over the net! It’s a joy to watch their efforts as they begin to learn the game.
With practice and perseverance, those Division 3 players begin to show real skill. And by the time you’re watching Division 4 players like Raymond and Mikah’s group—well, forget about it! The level of play is incredible. But it all starts with those first attempts, which are often messy and uncertain.
A Slow Start
This is true in nearly everything:
Contentment is no different. It’s not something that comes naturally to most of us. It’s a skill—a discipline—that requires practice and patience. As Paul wrote in Philippians 4:11, “I have learned, in whatsoever state I am, therewith to be content.”
And no, I don’t mean California, though that might apply too!
The Mystery of Contentment
In the first booklet of this series, we explored the Scriptural admonition to learn contentment. It is not an instinctive response but a learned skill that can grow stronger with effort.
Have you ever watched someone who has less than you, whose life is undeniably harder, and thought to yourself:
Perhaps they’ve discovered what we called the mystery, or the rare jewel of Christian contentment.
Continuing the Thought
If you missed last week’s sermon, we’ve made a booklet summarizing the key points—it’s available in the booklet rack for anyone who’d like to dig deeper.
But today, as we enter the Christmas season and some of you face unspeakable hardships, the question remains:
Can you learn the skill of being content?
Contentment Is a Skill
Like learning to drive or cook, contentment takes practice. It won’t happen overnight, but it’s a skill you can develop. Through God’s grace, as you lean on Him, you’ll find that even in hardship, joy and peace are within reach.
Will you commit to learning this rare and valuable skill?[1]
1. Learning Contentment:
Paradox and the Pathway to Satisfaction
Pastor Jeremiah Burroughs says:
1. THE FIRST THING IS, TO SHOW THAT THERE IS A GREAT MYSTERY IN IT.
As he explains, one of the great mysteries of the contented life is its paradoxical nature.
The Great Paradox of Contentment
Burroughs begins with this remarkable truth: a truly contented person is at once the most contented and the most unsatisfied person in the world. At first glance, this seems contradictory, but it reflects the dual reality of a heart anchored in Christ.
Philippians 4:12 illustrates this balance. Paul says:
“I know both how to be abased, and I know how to abound: everywhere and in all things I am instructed both to be full and to be hungry, both to abound and to suffer need.”
Paul is saying, “In all these states, I am content.” Whether in need or abundance, Paul is satisfied—not because of his circumstances, but because of his relationship with Christ.
Jesus Himself pointed to this truth in Mark 8:36-37:
“For what shall it profit a man, if he shall gain the whole world, and lose his own soul? Or what shall a man give in exchange for his soul?”
If you had the wealth of the entire world, you would still find yourself unsatisfied without Christ. A contented heart acknowledges this and places its satisfaction not in the abundance of possessions but in the sufficiency of Christ.
Knowing Christ Brings True Contentment
A church member, Rick, had an aunt ask him, “What is the difference between being a Christian and being a Catholic?”
Rick’s response was profound: “When I was Catholic, I saw Jesus everywhere. I heard all the stories and knew about Him. But now, I don’t just know about Jesus—I know Him!”
That is the key difference. To truly know Christ is to be satisfied in Him. It is the rare jewel of Christian contentment: to realize that my profit, my joy, and my peace do not come from the fullness of my possessions or my belly, but from Christ Himself.
Philippians 4:13 reminds us of this truth: “I can do all things through Christ which strengtheneth me.” The context of this verse is not about worldly success but about finding strength in Christ to live a life of contentment, regardless of circumstances.
Knowing About God Versus Knowing God
Do you know God in that way?
It is one thing to know facts about God. It is another to have a personal, experiential relationship with Him. Moses demonstrated this longing in Exodus 33:13-15: “Now therefore, I pray thee, if I have found grace in thy sight, show me now thy way, that I may know thee… If thy presence go not with me, carry us not up hence.”
Moses essentially said, “God, if You are not there, I do not want to go. I am only satisfied with You.”
This is the heart of contentment: finding our satisfaction in the presence of God alone. Philippians 4:7-9 highlights this beautifully:
“The peace of God, which passeth all understanding, shall keep your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus… and the God of peace shall be with you.”
It is not merely that we receive peace—it is that the God of peace Himself is with us. Psalm 73:25 captures this truth:
“Whom have I in heaven but thee? And there is none upon the earth that I desire beside thee.”
True contentment is not in escaping problems or gaining worldly peace. It is in knowing that the God of peace is walking with us.[2]
2. Learning Contentment:
Subtraction, Not Addition
While the first point reveals the paradox of being both content and unsatisfied, the second mystery of contentment is this:
A Christian comes to contentment, not so much by way of addition, as by way of subtraction.
How Do You Find Contentment?
The world’s way of seeking contentment often involves addition. If you feel discontent, the thinking goes, you simply need to add something to your life.
The logic is: “I’ve lost something, so I need to add something to replace it.”
But this is not the path to true Christian contentment.
True Contentment Through Subtraction
Paradoxically, contentment does not come from bringing your possessions up to the level of your expectations. Instead, it comes from bringing your expectations down to meet your possessions.
Productivity expert David Allen offers an illustration: when tackling a long to-do list, you can do the task, write it down for later, or lower your expectations. That last option is not often discussed, but it is deeply liberating.
For instance, if you expect your house to be spotless at all times, any imperfection—like a stray toy, a smudge on the counter, or a couch pillow without that perfect karate-chop crease—can create stress. The expectation of perfection makes contentment nearly impossible.
When my wife used to host guests, she felt an overwhelming pressure to ensure the house was immaculate, as if every visitor were conducting a white-glove inspection. Then someone shared an encouraging truth: “It’s okay if your house looks lived in. We know real people live here.”
This simple adjustment lowered her expectations and allowed her to enjoy hosting. Instead of striving for unattainable perfection, she focused on having a tidy, welcoming home and embracing the reality of life.
In this case, subtraction—removing the unrealistic expectation of perfection—brought greater contentment than any addition could have.
The Mystery of Subtraction
This principle is part of the mystery of Christian contentment. Contentment comes not from adding more to your life but from letting go of what weighs your spirit down.
The key is to recognize that Christ is enough. As you subtract distractions, unnecessary expectations, and worldly desires, you create space to find satisfaction in Him alone.
So Far
First, we recognize the paradox of contentment: I am content in Christ, yet dissatisfied with anything apart from Him.
Second, we embrace subtraction as the pathway to contentment, letting go of worldly expectations and desires.[3]
3. Learning Contentment:
Adding the Weight of Sin
Next, we will explore the third principle, where contentment comes not from removing burdens but from adding a new, life-changing burden—the weight of recognizing and addressing sin.
One of the profound mysteries of Christian contentment is this:
A Christian comes to contentment, not so much by getting rid of the burden that is on him, as by adding another burden to himself.
At first, this seems counterintuitive. How can adding more weight bring relief? But this principle is illustrated in the life of Peter.
Peter’s Burden of Failure
Peter’s journey to contentment was not a simple one. When Jesus was in the Garden of Gethsemane, Peter was ready to die for Him. He even drew his sword, fiercely defending his Lord. Peter had declared with confidence that he would never deny Jesus.
But later that same night, as the tide of public opinion turned, Peter found himself alone. By the fire, a young girl confronted him, saying, “You are one of His followers, aren’t you?” Peter denied it. Not once, but three times. He even cursed and swore, disowning the very Lord he had vowed to defend.
Then the rooster crowed, just as Jesus had predicted. In that moment, Peter was jarred from his stupor. He saw Jesus, remembered His words, and realized the depth of his failure. The Bible says, “He went out, and wept bitterly.” (Matthew 26:75)
Mark’s Gospel adds a significant detail: “And when he thought thereon, he wept.” (Mark 14:72) As Peter reflected on his denial, the weight of his sin overwhelmed him.
The Burden That Transformed Peter
Have you ever been there? Caught in the shame of failure, crying out to God, “Lord, if You would just give me another chance, I promise I will not fail You again!”
After His resurrection, Jesus gave Peter that chance. He called him to leadership, making him a bold spokesman for Christ. From that day forward, Peter never again denied his Lord. No matter how difficult things became, Peter stood firm.
What changed? Peter carried the memory of his failure, not as a burden of guilt, but as a constant reminder of the sin of unbelief that had once gripped him. He surrendered that sin fully to the Lord, and it became the weight that grounded his faith and deepened his resolve.
Adding the Right Burden
True Christian contentment is not about removing the burdens of life. Instead, it begins by adding the burden of our sin—the recognition of what caused Christ to hang on the cross.
Consider this: perhaps the very sin that Christ died for in your life is covetousness:
Do you see the arrogance in thinking our plans and desires are better than God’s?
When we feel the weight of our sin, we recognize the self-reliance and ingratitude that keep us from true contentment. But when we view our burdens in light of the immense weight of our sin—and the grace of Christ that lifts it—we experience freedom and peace.[4]
The Freedom Found in Surrender
In that moment of surrender, God does something remarkable with our burdens. He does not always remove them. Instead, He transforms them. This brings us to our next principle:
“It is not so much the removing of the affliction that is upon us as the changing of the affliction, the metamorphosing of the affliction, so that it is quite turned and changed into something else.”
As we will see, God takes what weighs us down and changes it into something that draws us closer to Him. Are you ready to let God transform your burdens into blessings?
4. Learning Contentment:
Changing and Embracing the Burden
The fourth principle of learning Christian contentment reveals another profound truth from Burroughs:
It is not so much the removing of the affliction that is upon us as the changing of the affliction, the metamorphosing of the affliction, so that it is quite turned and changed into something else.
God Transforms the Burden
Contentment does not come from escaping our burdens but from allowing God to transform them. The Apostle Paul provides a powerful example in 2 Corinthians 12:8-9:
“For this thing I besought the Lord thrice, that it might depart from me. And he said unto me, My grace is sufficient for thee: for my strength is made perfect in weakness.”
Paul begged God to remove the thorn in his flesh, but instead of taking it away, God used it to teach Paul the sufficiency of His grace. Paul learned to glory in his infirmities because they allowed the power of Christ to rest upon him.
It is not prosperity that molds us into the people God wants us to be—it is often adversity. Think back to the times in your life when you grew the most. Were they not some of the hardest seasons you have ever endured?
Surrendering Our Expectations
In our minds, we often build up solutions to our problems, thinking, “If only God would fix this thing my way, then I would be content.” We convince ourselves that removing the problem is the only path to peace.
But God says, “No, I am going to leave it there for a while and show you how I can turn it into something good.”
We may not like it, but in the meantime, we have a choice to make. Instead of focusing on getting away from the problem, we can ask, “Lord, what would You have me do in this situation?”[5]
5. Learning Contentment:
Staying Active in the Problem
The fifth principle of learning contentment is this:
A Christian comes to contentment not by making up the wants of his circumstances, but by the performance of the work of his circumstances.
In other words, contentment is not about running away from your problems but about staying active in the midst of them. Instead of saying, “If only I had more money, better health, a stronger marriage, or a different situation, then I would serve God,” we must recognize that God has called us to serve Him where we are, not where we wish we were.
Acts 13:36 reminds us of David’s example: “For David, after he had served his own generation by the will of God, fell on sleep, and was laid unto his fathers, and saw corruption.”
David served his own generation according to the will of God, which included both high points and low points. Even in his struggles, David recognized that God’s purpose was being fulfilled through his life.
Living in God’s Will
The will of God is His purpose, His counsel, and His design for your life. It does not mean He creates bad things for you to endure, but He allows challenges so you can glorify Him even in the hard times.
Instead of wallowing in self-pity and wishing for different circumstances, we need to embrace the truth that God has us here for a reason. The question is not, “Why am I here?” but rather, “What am I doing with this season of my life?”
Use your current situation for the Lord. Whether it is a time of trial or a period of waiting, God can use it to shape you and bless others.
The Path to Contentment
True contentment is not about escaping life’s difficulties but about glorifying God through them. Will you let Him transform your burdens and use them for His glory?[6]
6. Learning Contentment:
Melting Your Will into God’s Will
The sixth principle of learning Christian contentment is this:
A gracious heart is contented by the melting of his will and desires into God’s will and desires; by this means he gets contentment.
This principle is both profound and counterintuitive. To the carnal mind, the idea of surrendering one’s will to God seems like a loss of identity or purpose.
The World’s View of Surrender
People outside of Christ often look at Christians and think, “You have no identity. You have no personal ambitions anymore. You have given up all the fun in life—parties, music, and freedom—and now you just go to church and hang out with Bible-thumpers. What are you even doing with your life?”
To the world, surrendering to God looks like a sacrifice. They think we are simply giving up all the “good things” we had planned, only to live in suffering for Jesus.
The Believer’s Joy in God’s Will
But God’s people know better! When we truly understand Christian contentment, we realize we are not “giving up” anything when we surrender to God. In fact, we are gaining everything.
The rare jewel of Christian contentment is rare indeed, even among believers. Many saved people struggle to see God’s will as a joy. But can you really believe that God would ever do anything bad for you? Do you think He wants something worse for your life than you want for yourself?
True contentment comes when you believe that what God wants is also what you want. When your will aligns with His, you experience a joy and peace that the world cannot understand.
A Surrender That Brings Joy
This kind of surrender is not reluctant. It is not the grudging obedience that says, “Ugh, fine, God. If I have to…”
Instead, it is a joyful surrender of self—a desire to fully align your heart and will with God’s. A preacher once told our teens at summer camp, “We should not have to ‘surrender’ to God as if it were a painful decision to give up something good. Instead, we should want what God wants.”
When God gives you a new heart and new desires, your ambitions begin to align with His. Your old goals, which often led to frustration or fruitlessness, are replaced with God-given desires that bring eternal purpose.
In the words of Jeremiah Burroughs, “My will is melted into God’s will.”
Singing with a Willing Heart
We often sing the hymn, “I Surrender All.” But may it be a willing surrender—a joyful acknowledgment that God’s will is good, and His plans are better than ours could ever be. When we see our will as God’s will, they become one and the same.
So Far
7. THE MYSTERY CONSISTS NOT IN BRINGING ANYTHING FROM OUTSIDE TO MAKE MY CONDITION MORE COMFORTABLE, BUT IN PURGING OUT SOMETHING THAT IS WITHIN.
James 4:1 explains, “From whence come wars and fightings among you? come they not hence, even of your lusts that war in your members?”
Discontentment is ultimately an inward problem. It is a spiritual battle for our hearts, minds, and desires.
A Call to Reflection
Where are your struggles with contentment? What are you longing for? Is it a righteous longing, or does it stem from a misplaced desire?
What are you living for? Is it something eternal, or is it something temporary?
When we allow God to melt our will into His and purge the desires that keep us from Him, we find the rare jewel of Christian contentment—a peace and satisfaction that only comes through Him.[8]
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SERMON 2. THE MYSTERY OF CONTENTMENT
But you will object: What you speak of is very good, if we could attain to it; but is it possible for anyone to attain to this? It is possible if you get skill in the art of it; you may attain to it, and it will prove to be not such a difficult thing either, if you but understand the mystery of it. There are many things that men do in their callings, that if a countryman comes and sees, he thinks it a mighty hard thing, and that he should never be able to do it. But that is because he does not understand the art of it; there is a twist of the hand by which you may do it with ease. Now that is the business of this book, to open to you the art and mystery of contentment.
There is a great mystery and art in what way a Christian comes to contentment. By what has been already opened to you there will appear some mystery and art, as that a man should be content with his affliction, and yet thoroughly sensible of his affliction too; to be thoroughly sensible of an affliction, and to endeavor to remove it by all lawful means, and yet to be content: there is a mystery in that. How to join these two together: to be sensible of an affliction as much as a man or woman who is not content; I am sensible of it as fully as they, and I seek ways to be delivered from it as well as they, and yet still my heart abides content—this is, I say, a mystery, that is very hard for a carnal heart to understand. But grace teaches such a mixture, teaches us how to make a mixture of sorrow and a mixture of joy together; and that makes contentment, the mingling of joy and sorrow, of gracious joy and gracious sorrow together. Grace teaches us how to moderate and to order an affliction so that there shall be a sense of it, and yet for all that contentment under it.
There are several things for opening the mystery of contentment. ↑
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1. THE FIRST THING IS, TO SHOW THAT THERE IS A GREAT MYSTERY IN IT.
It may be said of one who is contented in a Christian way that he is the most contented man in the world, and yet the most unsatisfied man in the world; these two together must needs be mysterious. I say, a contented man, just as he is the most contented, so he is the most unsatisfied man in the world.
You never learned the mystery of contentment unless it may be said of you that, just as you are the most contented man, so you are also the most unsatisfied man in the world.
You will say, “How is that?” A man who has learned the art of contentment is the most contented with any low condition that he has in the world, and yet he cannot be satisfied with the enjoyment of all the world. He is contented if he has but a crust, but bread and water, that is, if God disposes of him, for the things of the world, to have but bread and water for his present condition, he can be satisfied with God’s disposal in that; yet if God should give unto him Kingdoms and Empires, all the world to rule, if he should give it him for his portion, he would not be satisfied with that. Here is the mystery of it: though his heart is so enlarged that the enjoyment of all the world and ten thousand worlds cannot satisfy him for his portion; yet he has a heart quieted under God’s disposal, if he gives him but bread and water. To join these two together must needs be a great art and mystery.
Though he is contented with God in a little, yet those things that would content other men will not content him. The men of the world seek after wealth, and think if they had thus much, and thus much, they would be content. They do not aim at great things; but if I had, perhaps some man thinks, only two or three hundred a year, then I should be well enough; if I had but a hundred a year, or a thousand a year, says another, then I should be satisfied. But a gracious heart says that if he had ten hundred thousand times so much a year, it would not satisfy him; if he had the quintessence of all the excellences of all the creatures in the world, it could not satisfy him; and yet this man can sing and be merry and joyful when he has only a crust of bread and a little water in the world. Surely religion is a great mystery!
Great is the mystery of godliness, not only in the doctrinal part of it, but in the practical part of it also.
Godliness teaches us this mystery, Not to be satisfied with all the world for our portion, and yet to be content with the meanest condition in which we are.
When Luther was sent great gifts by Dukes and Princes, he refused them, and he says, “I did vehemently protest that God should not put me off so; “tis not that which will content me.” A little in the world will content a Christian for his passage. Mark, here lies the mystery of it, A little in the world will content a Christian for his passage, but all the world, and ten thousand times more, will not content a Christian for his portion. A carnal heart will be content with these things of the world for his portion; and that is the difference between a carnal heart and a gracious heart. But a gracious heart says, “Lord, do with me what you will for my passage through this world; I will be content with that, but I cannot be content with all the world for my portion.” So there is the mystery of true contentment. A contented man, though he is most contented with the least things in the world, yet he is the most dissatisfied man that lives in the world.
A soul that is capable of God can be filled with nothing else but God; nothing but God can fill a soul that is capable of God. Though a gracious heart knows that it is capable of God, and was made for God, carnal hearts think without reference to God. But a gracious heart, being enlarged to be capable of God, and enjoying somewhat of him, can be filled by nothing in the world; it must only be God himself. Therefore you will observe that whatever God may give to a gracious heart, a heart that is godly, unless he gives himself it will not do.
A godly heart will not only have the mercy, but the God of that mercy as well; and then a little matter is enough in the world, so be it he has the God of the mercy which he enjoys. In Philippians 4:7,9 (I need go no further to show clear Scripture for this) compare verse 7 with verse 9: “And the peace of God which passeth all understanding shall keep your hearts and minds through Jesus Christ.”
The peace of God shall keep your hearts. Then in verse 9: “Those things which ye have both learned, and received, and heard, and seen in me, do: and the God of peace shall be with you.”
The peace of God shall keep you, and the God of peace shall be with you.
Here is what I would observe from this text. That the peace of God is not enough to a gracious heart except it may have the God of that peace. A carnal heart could be satisfied if he might but have outward peace, though it is not the pace of God; peace in the state, and his trading, would satisfy him. But mark how a godly heart goes beyond a carnal. All outward peace is not enough; I must have the peace of God. But suppose you have the peace of God. Will that not quiet you? No, I must have the God of peace, as the peace of God so the God of peace. That is, I must enjoy that God who gives me the peace; I must have the Cause as well as the effect. I must see from whence my peace comes, and enjoy the Fountain of my peace, as well as the stream of my peace. And so in other mercies: have I health from God? I must have the God of my health to be my portion, or else I am not satisfied. It is not life, but the God of my life; it is not riches, but the God of those riches, that I must have, the God of my preservation, as well as my preservation.
A gracious heart is not satisfied without this: to have the God of the mercy, as well as the mercy. In Psalm 73:25, “Whom have I in heaven but thee, and there is none upon the earth that I desire beside thee.” There is nothing in heaven or earth that can satisfy me, but yourself. If God gave you not only earth but heaven, that you should rule over sun, moon, and stars, and have the rule over the highest of the sons of men, it would not be enough to satisfy you, unless you had God himself. There lies the first mystery of contentment.
And truly a contented man, though he is the most contented man in the world, is the most dissatisfied man in the world; that is, those things that will satisfy the world, will not satisfy him. ↑
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2. A CHRISTIAN COMES TO CONTENTMENT, NOT SO MUCH BY WAY OF ADDITION, AS BY WAY OF SUBTRACTION.
That is his way of contentment, and it is a way that the world has no skill in. I open it thus: not so much by adding to what he would have, or to what he has, not by adding more to his condition; but rather by subtracting from his desires, so as to make his desires and his circumstances even and equal.
A carnal heart knows no way to be contented but this: I have such and such possessions, and if I had this added to them, and the other comfort added that I have not now, then I should be contented. perhaps I have lost my possessions, if I could only have given to me something to make up my loss, then I should be a contented man. But contentment does not come in that way, it does not come, I say, by adding to what you want, but by subtracting from your desires. It is all one to a Christian, whether I get up to what I would have, or get my desires down to what I have, either to attain what I do desire, or to bring down my desires to what I have already attained. My wealth is the same, for it is as fitting for me to bring my desire down to my circumstances, as it is to raise up my circumstances to my desire.
Now I say that a heart that has no grace, and is not instructed in this mystery of contentment, knows of no way to get contentment, but to have his possessions raised up to his desires; but the Christian has another way to contentment, that is, he can bring his desires down to his possessions, and so he attains his contentment. Thus the Lord fashions the hearts of the children of men. If the heart of a man is fashioned to his circumstances, he may have as much contentment as if his circumstances were fashioned to his heart.
Some men have a mighty large heart, but they have straitened circumstances, and they can never have contentment when they hearts are big, and their circumstances are little. But though a man cannot bring his circumstances to be as great as his heart, yet if he can bring his heart to be as little as his circumstances, to make them even, this is the way to contentment. The world is infinitely deceived in thinking that contentment lies in having more than we already have. Here lies the bottom and root of all contentment, when there is an evenness and proportion between our hearts and our circumstances. That is why many godly men who are in low position live more sweet and comfortable lives than those who are richer.
Contentment is not always clothed with silk and purple and velvets, but it is sometimes in a home-spun suit, in mean circumstances, as well as in higher.
Many men who once have had great estates, and God has brought them into a lower position have had more contentment in those circumstances than they had before. Now how can that possibly be? Quite easily, if you only understood that the root of contentment consists in the suitableness and proportion of a man’s spirit to his possessions, an evenness where one end is not longer and bigger than the other. The heart is contented and there is comfort in those circumstances. But now let God give a man riches, no matter how great, yet if the Lord gives him up to the pride of his heart, he will never be contented: on the other hand, let God bring anyone into mean circumstances, and then let God but fashion and suit his heart to those circumstances and he will be content.
It is the same in walking: Suppose a man had a very long leg, and his other leg was short—why, though one of his legs was longer than usual, still he could not go as well as a man both of whose legs are shorter than his. I would compare a long leg, when one is longer than the other, to a man who has a high position and is very rich and a great man in the world, but he has a very proud heart, too, and that is longer and larger than his position. This man cannot but be troubled in his circumstances. Another man is in a mean position, his circumstances are low, and his heart is low too, so that his heart and his circumstances are even. This man walks with abundantly more ease than the other. Thus a gracious heart thinks in this way: “The Lord has been pleased to bring down my circumstances; now if the Lord brings down my heart and makes it equal to my circumstances, then I am well enough.” So when God brings down his circumstances, he does not so much labor to raise up his circumstances again as to bring his heart down to his circumstances.
Even the heathen philosophers had a little glimpse of this: they could say that the best riches is poverty of desires—those are the words of a heathen. That is, if a man or woman have their desires cut short, and have no large desires, that man or woman is rich. So this is the art of contentment: not to seek to add to our circumstances, but to subtract form our desires. Another author has said, The way to be rich is not by increasing wealth, but by diminishing our desires. Certainly that man or woman is rich, who have their desires satisfied.
Now a contented man has his desires satisfied, God satisfies them, that is, all considered, he is satisfied that his circumstances are for the present the best circumstances.
So he comes to this contentment by way of subtraction, and not addition. ↑
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3. A CHRISTIAN COMES TO CONTENTMENT, NOT SO MUCH BY GETTING RID OF THE BURDEN THAT IS ON HIM, AS BY ADDING ANOTHER BURDEN TO HIMSELF.
This is a way that flesh, and blood has little skill in. You will say, “How is this?”
In this manner: are you afflicted, and is there a great load and burden on you because of your affliction? You think there is no way in the world to get contentment, but O that this burden were but off! O it is a heavy load, and few know what a burden I have. What, do you think that there is no way for the contentment of your spirit, but to get rid of your burden? O you are deceived.
The way of contentment is to add another burden, that is, to labor to load and burden your heart with your sin; the heavier the burden of your sin is to your heart, the lighter will the burden of your affliction be to your heart, and so you shall come to be content. If you burden were lightened, that would content you; you think there is no way to lighten it but to get it off. But you are deceived; for if you can get your heart to be more burdened with your sin, you will be less burdened with your afflictions.
You will say, this is a strange way for a man or woman to get ease to their condition, to lay a greater burden upon them when they are already burdened? You think there is no other way, when you are afflicted, but to be jolly and merry, and get into company. Oh now, you are deceived, your burden will come again. Alas, this is a poor way to get one’s spirit quitted; poor man, the burden will be upon him again. If you would have your burden light, get alone, and examine your heart for your sin, and charge your soul with your sin. If your burden is in your possessions, for the abuse of them, or if it is a burden upon your body, for the abuse of your health and strength, and the abuse of any mercies that now the Lord has taken away from you, that you have not honored God with those mercies that you have had, but you have walked wantonly and carelessly; if you so fall to bemoaning your sin before the Lord, you shall quickly find the burden of your affliction to be lighter than it was before. Do but try this piece of skill and art, to get your souls contented with any low circumstances that God puts you into.
Many times in a family, when any affliction befalls them, Oh, what an amount of discontent is there between man and wife! If they are crossed in their possessions at land, or have bad news from across the seas, or if those whom they trusted are ruined and the like, or perhaps something in the family causes strife between man and wife, in reference to the children or servants, and there is nothing but quarrelling and discontent among them, now they are many times burdened with their own discontent; and perhaps will say one to another, It is very uncomfortable for us to live so discontented as we do. But have you ever tried this way, husband, and wife? Have you ever got alone and said, “Come, Oh let us go and humble our souls before God together, let us go into our chamber and humble our souls before God for our sin, by which we have abused those mercies that God has taken away from us, and we have provoked God against us. Oh let us charge ourselves with our sin and be humbled before the Lord together.?” Have you tried such a way as this?
Oh you would find that the cloud would be taken away, and the sun would shine in upon you, and you would have a great deal more contentment than ever you had. If a man’s estate is broken, either by plunderers, or any other way; how shall this man have contentment? How? By the breaking of his heart. God has broken your estate; Oh seek to him for the breaking of your heart likewise. Indeed, a broken estate and a whole heart, a hard heart, will not join together; there will be no contentment. But a broken estate and a broken heart will so suit one another, as that there will be more contentment than there was before.
Add therefore to the breaking of your estate, the breaking of your heart, and that is the way to be contented in a Christian manner, which is the third mystery in Christian contentment. ↑
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4. IT IS NOT SO MUCH THE REMOVING OF THE AFFLICTION THAT IS UPON US AS THE CHANGING OF THE AFFLICTION, THE METAMORPHOSING OF THE AFFLICTION, SO THAT IT IS QUITE TURNED AND CHANGED INTO SOMETHING ELSE.
I mean in regard of the use of it, though for the thing itself the affliction remains. The way of contentment to a carnal heart is only the removing of the affliction. O that it may be gone! “No,” says a gracious heart, “God has taught me a way to be content though the affliction itself still continues.”
There is a power of grace to turn this affliction into good; it takes away the sting and poison of it. Take the case of poverty, a man’s possessions are lost: Well, is there no way to be contented till your possessions are made up again? Till your poverty is removed? Yes, certainly, Christianity would teach contentment, though poverty continues. It will teach you how to turn your poverty to spiritual riches. You shall be poor still as to your outward possessions, but this shall be altered; whereas before it was a natural evil to you, it comes now to be turned to a spiritual benefit to you. And so you come to be content.
There is a saying of Ambrose, “Even poverty itself is riches to holy men.”
Godly men make their poverty turn to riches; they get more riches out of their poverty than ever they get out of their revenues. Out of all their trading in this world they never had such incomes as they have had out of their poverty. This a carnal heart will thing strange, that a man shall make poverty the most gainful trade that ever he had in the world. I am persuaded that many Christians have found it so, that they have got more good by their poverty, than ever they got by all their riches. You find it in Scripture.
Therefore thing not this strange that I am speaking of. You do not find one godly man who came out of an affliction worse than when he went into it; though for a while he was shaken, yet at last he was better for an affliction.
But a great many godly men, you find, have been worse for their prosperity.
Scarcely one godly man that you read of in Scripture but was worse for prosperity (except for Daniel and Nehemiah—I do not read of any hurt they got by their prosperity); scarcely, I think, is there one example of a godly man who was not worse for his prosperity than better. Sao rather you see it is no strange thing to one who is gracious that they shall get good by their affliction.
Luther has a similar expression in his comment on the 5th chapter of the Galatians, the 17th verse: he says, “Christian becomes a mighty worker and a wonderful creator, that is,” he says, “to create out of heaviness joy, out of terror comfort, out of sin righteousness, and out of death life.” He brings light out of darkness. It was God’s prerogative and great power, his creating power to command the light to shine out of darkness. Now a Christian is partaker of the divine nature, so the Scripture says; grace is part of the divine nature, and, being part of the divine nature, it has an impression of God’s omnipotent power, that is, to create light out of darkness, to bring good out of evil—by this a way a Christian comes to be content. God has given a Christian such power that he can turn afflictions into mercies, can turn darkness into light. If a man had the power that Christ had, when the water pots were filled, he could by a word turn the water into wine. If you who have nothing but water to drink had the power to turn it into wine, then you might be contented; certainly a Christian has received this power from God, to work thus miraculously. It is the nature of grace to turn water into wine, that is, to turn the water of your affliction, into the wine of heavenly consolation.
If you understand this in a carnal way, I know it will be ridiculous for a minister to speak thus to you, and many carnal people are ready to make such expressions as these ridiculous, understanding them in a carnal way.
This is just like Nicodemus, in the third of John, “What! can a man be born when he is old? can he enter the second time into his mother’s womb and be born?” So when we say of grace, that it can turn water into wine, and turn poverty into riches, and make poverty a gainful trade, a carnal heart says, “Let them have that trade if they will, and let them have water to drink, and see if they can turn it into wine.” Oh, take heed you do not speak in a scornful way of the ways of God; grace has the power to turn afflictions into mercies. Two men may have the same affliction; to one it shall be as gall and wormwood, yet it shall be wine and honey and delightfulness and joy and advantage and riches to the other. This is the mystery of contentment, not so much by removing the evil, as by metamorphosing the evil, by changing the evil into good. ↑
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5. A CHRISTIAN COMES TO THIS CONTENTMENT NOT BY MAKING UP THE WANTS OF HIS CIRCUMSTANCES, BUT BY THE PERFORMANCE OF THE WORK OF HIS CIRCUMSTANCES.
This is the way of contentment. There are these circumstances that I am in, with many wants: I want this and the other comfort—well, how shall I come to be satisfied and content? A carnal heart thinks, I must have my wants made up or else it is impossible that I should be content. But a gracious heart says,
“What is the duty of the circumstances God has put me into?
Indeed, my circumstances have changed, I was not long since in a prosperous state, but God has changed my circumstances. The Lord has called me no more Naomi, but Marah. Now what am I to do? What can I think now are those duties that God requires of me in the circumstances that he has now put me into? Let me exert my strength to perform the duties of my present circumstances. Others spend their thoughts on things that disturb and disquiet them, and so they grow more and more discontented.
Let me spend my thoughts in thinking what my duty is, “O,” says a man whose condition is changed and who has lost his wealth, “Had I but my wealth, as I had heretofore, how would I use it to his glory? God has made me see that I did not honor him with my possessions as I ought to have done. O if I had it again, I would do better than I did before.” But this may be but a temptation.
You should rather think, “What does God require of me in the circumstances I am now brought into?” You should labor to bring your heart to quiet and contentment by setting your soul to work in the duties of your present condition. And the truth is, I know nothing more effective for quieting a Christian soul and getting contentment than this, setting your heart to work in the duties of the immediate circumstances that you are now in, and taking heed of your thoughts about other conditions as a mere temptation.
I cannot better compare the folly of those men and women who think they will get contentment by musing about other circumstances than to the way of children: perhaps they have climbed a hill and look a good way off and see another hill, and they think if they were on the top of that, they would be able to touch the clouds with their fingers; but when they are on the top of that hill, alas, they are as far from the clouds as they were before. So it is with many who think, If I were in such circumstances, then I should have contentment; and perhaps they get into circumstances, and they are as far from contentment as before. But then they think that if they were in other circumstances, they would be contented, but when they have got into those circumstances, they are still as far from contentment as before. No, no, let me consider what is the duty of my present circumstances, and content my heart with this, and say, “Well, though I am in a low position, yet I am serving the counsels of God in those circumstances where I am; it is the counsel of God that has brought me into these circumstances that I am in, and I desire to serve the counsel of God in these circumstances.
There is a remarkable Scripture concerning David, of whom it is said that he served his generation: “After David had served his generation according to the will of God, then he slept.” It is a saying of Paul concerning him in Acts 13:3
6. In your Bibles it is, “After he had served his own generation according to the will of God,” but the word that is translated will, means the counsel of God, and so it may be translated as well, “That after David in his generation had served God’s counsel, then he fell asleep.” We ordinarily take the words thus, That David served his generation: that is, he did the work of his generation—
that is to serve a man’s generation. But it is clearer if you read it thus, After David in his generation had served the counsel of God, then David fell asleep.
O that should be the care of a Christian, to serve out God’s counsels. What is the counsel of God? The circumstances that I am in, God has put me into by his own counsel, the counsel of his own will. Now I must serve God’s counsel in my generation; whatever is the counsel of God in my circumstances, I must be careful to serve that. So I shall have my heart quieted for the present, and shall live and die peaceably and comfortably, if I am careful to serve God’s counsel. ↑
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6. A GRACIOUS HEART IS CONTENTED BY THE MELTING OF HIS WILL AND DESIRES INTO GOD’s WILL AND DESIRES; BY THIS MEANS HE GETS CONTENTMENT.
This too is a mystery to a carnal heart. It is not by having his own desires satisfied, but by melting his will and desires into God’s will. So that, in one sense, he comes to have his desires satisfied though he does not obtain the thing that he desired before; still he comes to be satisfied with this, because he makes his will to be at one with God’s will. This is a small degree higher than submitting to the will of God. You all say that you should submit to God’s will; a Christian has got beyond this. He can make God’s will and his own the same. It is said of believers that they are joined to the Lord, and are one spirit; that means, that whatever God’s will is, I do not only see good reason to submit to it, but God’s will is my will. When the soul can make over, as it were, its will to God, it must needs be contented. Others would fain get the thing they desire, but a gracious heart will say, “O what God would have, I would have too; I will not only yield to it, but I would have it too.”
A gracious heart has learned this art, not only to make the commanding will of God to be its own will—that is, what God commands me to do, I will do it—but to make the providential will of God and the operative will of God to be his will too. God commands this thing, which perhaps you who are Christians may have some skill in, but whatever God works you must will, as well as what God commands. You must make God’s providential will and his operative will, your will as well as God’s will, and in this way, you must come to contentment.
A Christian makes over his will to God, and in making over his will to God, he has no other will but God’s. Suppose a man were to make over his debt to another man. If the man to whom I owe the debt be satisfied and contented, I am satisfied because I have made it over to him, and I need not be discontented and say, “My debt is not paid, and I am not satisfied.” Yes, you are satisfied, for he to whom you made over your debt is satisfied. It is just the same, for all the world, between God and a Christian: a Christian heart makes over his will to God: now then if God’s will is satisfied, then I am satisfied, for I have no will of my own, it is melted into the will of God. This is the excellence of grace: grace does not only subject the will to God, but it melts the will into God’s will, so that they are now but one will. What a sweet satisfaction the soul must have in this condition, when all is made over to God. You will say, This is hard! I will express it a little more: A gracious heart must needs have satisfaction in this way, because godliness teaches him this, to see that his good is more in God than in himself. The good of my life and comforts and my happiness and my glory and my riches are more in God than in myself. We may perhaps speak more of that, when we come to the lessons that are to be learned. It is by this that a gracious heart gets contentment; he melts his will into God’s, for he says, “If God has glory, I have glory; God’s glory is my glory, and therefore God’s will is mine; if God has riches, then I have riches; if God is magnified, then I am magnified; if God is satisfied, then I am satisfied; God’s wisdom and holiness is mine, and therefore his will must needs be mine, and my will must needs be his.” This is the art of a Christian’s contentment: he melts his will into the will of God and makes over his will to God: “Oh Lord, thou shalt choose our inheritance for us” (Psalm 47:4). ↑
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7. THE MYSTERY CONSISTS NOT IN BRINGING ANYTHING FROM OUTSIDE TO MAKE MY CONDITION MORE COMFORTABLE, BUT IN PURGING OUT SOMETHING THAT IS WITHIN.
Now the men of the world, when they would have contentment, and lack anything, Oh, they must have something from outside to content them. But a godly man says: “Let me get something out that is in already, and then I shall come to contentment.” Suppose a man has a fever, that makes what he drinks taste bitter: he says, “You must put some sugar into my drink”; his wife puts some in, and still the drink tastes bitter. Why? Because the bitterness comes from a bitter choleric humor within. But let the physician come and give him a bitter portion to purge out the bitterness that is within, and then he can taste his drink well enough. It is just the same with men of the world: Oh such a mercy added to this mercy, then it would be sweet; but even if God should put a spoonful or two of sugar in, it would still be bitter. The way to contentment is to purge out your lusts and bitter humors. “From whence are wars, and strifes? are they not from your lusts that are within you?” (James 4:1).
They are not so much from things outside, but from within. I have said sometimes, “Not all the storms that are abroad can make an earthquake, but the vapors that have got within.” So if those lusts that are within, in your heart, were got out, your condition would be a contented condition. These are the mysterious ways of godliness, that the men of the world never think of.
When did you ever think of such a way as this, to go and purge out the diseases of your heart that are within?
Here are seven particulars now named, and there are many more. Without the understanding of these things, and the practice of them, you will never come to a true contentment in your life; Oh, you will be bunglers in this trade of Christianity. But the right perceiving of these things will help you to be instructed in it, as in a mystery.
The mystery of contentment may be shown even more. A gracious heart gets contentment in a mysterious way, a way that the world is not acquainted with. ↑